I don’t know that I have had the death of anyone close to me effect me any more than that of Robin Williams. I am right now in a small West Texas town on a work assignment. While getting coffee this morning the breakfast bar was a buzz with “smart ass” comments about his suicide. Sadly,red necks trying to be funny rarely are.
I wanted to scream something, but the words would not come, only tears. It made me so glad that I do not live in this part of Texas any longer.
I came back to my room and the blog below was in my email. Had to share. It is said with words that I can’t find right now.
Reblogged form Inspired RD:
I’ve been coming across some incredible posts on depression and suicide since the tragic death of Robin Williams. I wanted to share some of them with you. Please feel free to leave comments with other links you have found helpful this week.
Thoughts on depression, suicide, and being a Christian by Nish Weiseth
But there’s another kind of evil lurking around the halls of the depressed, and it’s the belief that those who are stricken with depression (or any mental illness) are suffering because of their lack of faith in Jesus. “If only you’d pray for more joy,” people say. “If only you’d ask God to take the pain.” Or, “Is there unresolved sin in your life?” Or how about this one, “If you’d just meditate more on God’s Word…”
Folks, saying someone is depressed or suicidal because they aren’t praying enough, are self-absorbed, sinful, or don’t have a deep enough faith? It’s abusive. And it needs to stop. Now.
The depressed Christian: Why the dark night is no measure of your soul by Megan Tietz
In that season, I went back to my roots: reading the Bible, praying, singing songs of praise, trying to keep gratitude lists. No matter what I did, no matter how hard I prayed, no matter how often I cried out, I couldn’t force my mind to course-correct. I was acutely aware of how broken my brain was but felt absolutely powerless to fix it.
And yet in the midst of that dark time, my heart absolutely thrilled with joy. Watching the boys sleep next to each other, tucked into each other because that’s how you sleep when that’s all you know – it made my heart crack wide open with joy. Silly conversations and long hugs from my girls, giggly text messages from my husband … yes, there was light and joy and love and moments of clarity in the midst of those hard, hard days.
Why “YOU ARE NOT ALONE” Is A Lie by Carlos Whittaker
Imagine for a moment…
You are surrounded by every single person in the world who loves you.
There is a celebration of who you are and there is a huge party happening.
Everyone is waiting to talk to YOU and tell you that they love you and you are amazing.
Sounds awesome huh?
Now imagine you are in a space suit.
You can barely hear what anyone is saying and although you are being hugged, you can’t feel anything.
In the midst of not being “alone”…
You are alone.
In which depression is NOT your fault by Sarah Bessey
Since the tragic death of Robin Williams, I have seen some terrible, misinformed, and abusive bullsh*t online about depression and mental illness. This normally wouldn’t be enough to make me type as passionately as I am right now but this stuff is coming from a few vocal and influential Christians. I see it being shared around on social media like candy. And it makes my blood boil and my heart ache.
I hate to think of my beloved people reading that kind of damaging stuff. Heaping condemnation and guilt and fear on the heads of the suffering is akin to tying a millstone around someone’s neck. This is a heinous and evil thing to do.
Robin Williams’ Death: a reminder that suicide and depression are not selfish by Dean Burnett
I’ve said it before, and I’ll say it again; dismissing the concerns of a genuine depression sufferer on the grounds that you’ve been miserable and got over it is like dismissing the issues faced by someone who’s had to have their arm amputated because you once had a paper cut and it didn’t bother you. Depression is a genuine debilitating condition, and being in “a bit of a funk” isn’t. The fact that mental illness doesn’t receive the same sympathy/acknowledgement as physical illness is often–referenced, and it’s a valid point. If you haven’t had it, you don’t have the right to dismiss those who have/do. You may disagree, and that’s your prerogative, but there are decades’ worth of evidence saying you’re wrong.
Find your light. Rinse and repeat…†…monos en theos…….jim
2 thoughts on “Shades of Gray from Grayson Co, TX #800 – Where is that light @ the end of the tunnel?”
Well all I can say is I’m glad you don’t live in that part of Texas either…if that’s what it’s about. It is really sad that there are still so many people in this world that can’t bother to become educated about the basic facts of mental illness.
You have shared some wonderful articles here. As one of your loyal followers, I just want to send a ((hug)) your way at this time.
Misunderstood……thanks for that, it warmed my heart. It was strange yesterday as I was working and I was open as to my feelings with others, how much sympathy and love I was shown. It made me feel so bad for those people that become almost personal property to others. I would guess it would be heart to show your true heart when it is perceived as something it is not…….blessing on you and thanx for the hug……j